Category Archives: Marriage

Reality and Valentine’s Day

originally written February 2007
As I sit here planning a candlelight Valentine’s dinner with my love, I think back on the conversation I had a few days ago with my single sister-in-law. Her Bible school class on marriage has given her a lot to think about.
I couldn’t tell her the teacher was wrong. I couldn’t tell [...]

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The Man I Prayed For

Dear God, I prayed, all unafraid,
(as we’re inclined to do)
I do not need a handsome man
But let him be like You;
I do not need one big and tall
Nor need he be some genius
Or wealthy, Lord, at all;
But let his head be high, dear God,
And let his eye be clear,
His shoulders straight,
Whate’er his state
Whate’er his earthly [...]

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Of Blessings and In-Laws

The old adage that “you don’t just marry a person, you marry a family” is never more evident than during the holiday season. Even if you don’t literally go “over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s house”, the months of November and December are almost always filled with lots of family visits.
I [...]

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Lasting Love

It is my firmly held belief that each spouse in every marriage ought to perpetually have on his or her nightstand a good book on the topic of marriage.
This is not to say, exactly, that John and I are both devouring a new marriage book every day, nor that my primary reading is necessarily books [...]

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Marriage Is Not My Highest Calling
Part Two

Click here if you missed Part One.
We often speak of things such as being a wife or mother as God’s calling. “This is my highest and noblest calling,” we might declare. I beg to differ. God’s calling to a life is the thing that will never, under any circumstance, change in that life. Throughout scripture [...]

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