A Spinster Looks at Proverbs 31 (2 of 2)

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She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh for herself carpets of tapestry; her clothing is fine linen and purple.

Sounds like a pretty classy lady to me. I’m certain that it pleases God when I put out the effort to show that knowing Him makes His daughters more beautiful. I’m certain it blesses others when my dress is neither too dull nor too bold, but refreshing, sunshiny, and restful to the eye.

Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

Staying in the background and helping to make my boss look good is pretty easy, but consistently honoring him in my attitude is something that only comes from Jesus.

She maketh linen garments and selleth them, and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

This lady is a real entrepreneur…something I’ve never dreamed of being. I wonder what God will teach me about this one?

Strength and dignity are her clothing; and she laugheth at the time to come.

Ah yes. I can stand tall because I’m His.

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and the law of kindness is on her tongue.

I think the Holy Spirit wants to remind me that as a woman, I’ve got influence I can use for good, if I’ll work with Him on it. And there’s no need to use sarcasm to defend myself from teasing. If I stick to gentleness, He’ll look out for me.

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

This is becoming a joy to do, but it takes a choice. As a naturally dreamy person, I could tune out needs and resent the interruptions of everyday life…or I can enjoy keeping a beautiful, well-stocked apartment.

Her children rise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her, saying: Many daughters have done worthily, but thou excellest them all. Grace is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

Did you know that this is a promise? If you fear Him, you’ll be praised. Period. I’ve discovered (to my surprise) that you don’t need a husband and children to receive appreciation and love and recognition for the things that Jesus is doing in you. He knows how to get the message through to you, and sometimes He’ll use the most unexpected people.

Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her works praise her in the gates.

And even if no person notices what you do, for every secret sacrifice, every obedient action, and every beautiful attitude, oh how real is His approval and love!

- by Elisabeth A.
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7 Comments

  1. Anna
    Posted April 2, 2008 at 7:16 AM | Permalink

    Once again, thanks for your insight. I’ve absolutely loved reading about this! It is SUCH an encouragement!

  2. Anonymous
    Posted April 2, 2008 at 10:21 AM | Permalink

    So good!!! Thanks again!
    “God’s Girl”

  3. Elizabeth
    Posted April 2, 2008 at 11:09 AM | Permalink

    Too cool!!

  4. Lydia
    Posted April 3, 2008 at 8:56 AM | Permalink

    I like what you said about our clothing being neither too dull nor too bold, but refreshing, sunshiny & restful to the eye.

    Never thought about it that way.

    Thank You Elisabeh!

  5. Hannah
    Posted April 3, 2008 at 9:16 PM | Permalink

    I have immensely enjoyed reading your insites into this passage! As I said when I commented on Part 1, I had never thought to apply this to a single woman. Thank you!

  6. Laura Anne
    Posted April 4, 2008 at 4:29 PM | Permalink

    I loved your perspective on the Proverbs 31 woman! Wonderful! Thank you so much for that!

  7. Liz
    Posted April 15, 2008 at 12:05 PM | Permalink

    I never thought of clothing as being “restful”, but that is a great way of describing how I want to dress myself and my little girl. And I admit to giving a sympathetic chuckle as a fellow dreamer – how hard it is sometimes to willingly and joyfully apply oneself to the task at hand!

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